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I recently wrote a book about what I call "sufficient satisfaction." It's a picture of a forty-one man who is unhappy with his life. After a spectacular train ride, he learns to define contentment in nine aspects of life: work, family, health, friendship, finances, entertainment, spirituality, generosity, and inheritance. Writing made me look back on my life — both the good and the bad. It inspired me to write nine quotes that I wish I could go back and tell myself I was younger. Some I would have done the same again, some very different. Everything, however, is worth writing down to encourage you to think about the things you need to start, stop, or move on.
Here:
Occupation: Your work cannot take the place of family, life, leisure, and friendship - In the film The Family Man, the actor Nicholas Cage is a hard-working investment banker who can see what his life is like for a middle-aged husband and father. He comes to see that there is more to life than business. By all means, then, continue to pursue your career goals, but not by losing some of the most important aspects of your life.
Family: Don't waste any time - Dad worked hard as a baker; so much so that he missed many family events. In his later years, he told me how sorry he was for missing so many events with me and my five siblings. Do not look back on your life with regret over the lack of memory builders.
Health: If you do not make the decision to take care of yourself, the decision will be yours - I became emotionally traumatized at the age of 30 due to running mentally and physically. I thought I could keep pushing and pulling hard. That's not right. I had no choice but to make some adjustments in order to regain my health. If you do not focus on your health, there is something beyond your control that will cause you to do something.
Friendship: Have a few friends who will help you out at 2 in the morning, no questions asked - I was recently on vacation when a landlord at our rental phone called and said that the washing machine was not working. I was 2,000 miles [3,000 km] away and could not reach my destination, so I called my dear friend who was in a rented place for 30 minutes and fixed the problem. Having a few close friends you can count on to help you get out of the jam is worth the gold. Being another trusted friend is equally important.
Finance: No one cares about your finances more than you - When I graduated from college, I bought three investment books. Those letters formed the basis for my investment advice. At times, though, I allowed others who did not have my best interests at heart to take control of my investment. Now I manage all the dollars myself and I keep investing strategies right now. Putting your money in the hands of a paid counselor will ensure that bread is put on his table along with your money. Do as much of this yourself as you can.
Rest: Work/health balance means slowing down, slowing down - I know too many people who work 60+ hours a week to stop "health" activities on the weekends. They had a work/health balance, but it was achieved by running 100 miles per hour. Leisure time should include a period of rest and reloading, so use at least one of these to relax, and be careful not to try to incorporate too many things into your life.
Spirituality: Go and talk about your beliefs - No matter what your spiritual beliefs are (my Christ), do not be Jekyll and Hyde in what you say and do. Cursing the storm in meetings during the workweek and going to church on Sunday is not uncommon. It’s not about judging your belief system; it is about making sure that your actions are in line with your beliefs.
Giving: Give with love, not for luxury or bond - My son loves to cook. She lives as a volunteer to cook and deliver food to needy families. She loves to donate her time and money to help families in need of hot food enjoy her cooking. The amount and type of giving are up to you, just do it with love and enjoy the satisfaction you get.
Inheritance: Live in your eulogy - A few years ago I made a statement of personal intent. After much searching for the soul, I came up with this: I will work to help others help themselves and not just empower them. When I die, I want people to say three words at my funeral: He helped me. If you have a personal goal or statement of purpose, live
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